Been speaking to a guy from Hinge for a week. I really, really enjoy the phone conversations and we seem to have pretty similar values and personalities.
However, I don't know if I will be attracted to him based on his hinge photos. In two of them I think no, probably not but then in two he looks ok.
The reason it's not a complete no to dating is because some people carry themselves in a way that does make them attractive to me. So in person it could be different. Physical attraction is important to me.
I feel a bit guilty already because he wants to arrange a date for two week's time and he will be driving three hours. He also seems to really like me so far and puts a lot of effort into messaging.
Idk I think I just find it hard to tell people I'm not into them if we've spent some time on the phone and built that rapport. So I'm dreading doing this after the date if it does go that way.
Please help
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